Sesame Street Launches New Initiative to Support Children in Foster Care

There’s a new face on Sesame Street! Sesame Street has welcomed Karli, a Muppet in foster care, as well as her “for-now” parents, Dalia and Clem.

From the Sesame Street in Communities team:

Fostering a child takes patience, resilience, and sacrifice. Sesame Street in Communities has created new resources to help children in crisis cope with separation from their birth parents, placement in foster care, and possible reunions.

Talking about foster care can be difficult for both foster parents and the children in their care.

“We want foster parents and providers to hear that what they do matters — they have the enormous job of building and rebuilding family structures and children’s sense of safety,” Jeanette Betancourt, senior vice president of social impact at Sesame Workshop, said in a statement. “By giving the adults in children’s lives the tools they need — with help from the ‘Sesame Street’ Muppets — we can help both grown-ups and children feel seen and heard and give them a sense of hope for the future.”

Sesame Street in Communities is Sesame Street’s online initiative that addresses complex issues such as family homelessness, overcoming trauma and dealing with divorce. Each topic features videos, articles, and interactive activities to facilitate age-appropriate conversations

Explore their section on foster care here: https://sesamestreetincommunities.org/topics/foster-care/

See below for an excerpt from their article, “Talking About it”, featuring some questions you might hear and ways you might consider responding.

Why am I living away from Mommy and/or Daddy?

  • Sometimes mommies and daddies need help getting well enough or learning to take better care of their children.
  • What do you miss about your mommy/daddy? Our home is a safe place to stay while the grown-ups figure out the best plan. We want you here; we’re here to take care of you.

Why can’t I go home?
It’s not a safe, healthy place for you to live right now.

When can I go home?
Grown-ups who care about what happens to you are trying to figure that out. We all hope you’ll be able to see Mom/Dad/siblings soon.

What do I tell kids who say I am a foster child?
What might you like to say? (Talk through their response.) “You could say, I have more even grown-ups who love me now. They’re my for-now parents–they’re taking care of me until my mom/dad can again.”

Doesn’t my mom/dad love me?
Your mom/dad does love you very much. There are some problems they need help with so that they can take good care of you. You are holding each other in your hearts and that does not ever change.

Why do I have to go to court?
Grown-ups called lawyers, judges, and caseworkers are working together to try to figure out the best plan to keep you safe. They might ask you questions to help figure that out, and you need to tell the truth.

When can I see my brother/sister? (if children have been separated from siblings)

  • (if you don’t know) We just don’t know that right now. The grown-ups are working to figure that out. I’ll tell you as soon as I know.
  • If you know for sure, say the day or date. Older children might benefit from seeing it on a calendar; younger children can be told in more concrete ways, such as “after two sleeps” (meaning two nights from now) or “when there is snow on the ground” or “every Sunday after church.”

Is it my fault that I got taken away? (If children reported the incidents that caused the removal from their birth family, they are especially likely to believe it’s their fault.)

  • No matter what happened, it is not your fault.
  • It’s a grown-up problem.
  • You didn’t cause the problem, and you can’t fix it.